Lessons Are More Important Than Skills
Written By: David Fletcher, NHCB
Wednesday, December 5, 2018
He had been selling real estate for 25 years. I had no experience, but I had one question.
ldquo;What advice would you give me as I begin my real estate sales career?"
I had to ask, rather impatiently, no doubt, "What do you mean? I thought you were going to suggest learning skills like closing the sale, using the telephone, and such.rdquo;
He said, ldquo;David, remember this. If you donrsquo;t learn your lessons, you want need your selling skills, because you will be out of business.
I thought he was kidding, but he was dead serious. He told me that if I did not learn to be patient, to keep learning, to keep focused that I would not only be unsuccessful I would seldom enjoy what I do.
ldquo;If donrsquo;t learn your lessons, you will not need your skills.
Mr. Vanscoy was also my first character mentor. He did not tell off-color jokes, did not drink, and went home to his family. He sang in a choir at some local church. There was something different about him that I came to greatly admire and eventually understand.
Many a time through the years, his advice to be patient paid off, when I had not the first desire to be patient. We have all been kept waiting for appointments. Waiting comes with the territory, but it was not that long ago that my patience pushed the limit.
I promptly showed up for a 9 am appointment with a developer to sign listing agreements for condominium communities, as the listing broker of record. He was running late. Then later, and later, yet.
Question: what is the longest you have ever waited or would wait for a prospect?
We ended up meeting at 6:30 pm. I had waited nine and a half hours during which time my mind ran through the gauntlet of self-pity and pride-driven scenarios: They do not respect me. I think I will walk out, and other impatience-driven actons that would have cost me thousands of dollars.
One thought kept coming back. ldquo;Be patient.rdquo; It paid off.
Our new homes sales team took over as the exclusive broker of record for the onsite sales for 774 units in four condominium communities and sold about 70 million over the next two years. It was worth the wait in green, as in commissions.
The lesson: My sales skills, reputation, experience hellip;nothing would have mattered had I decided to walk away from this opportunity. The only thing that mattered for me was to focus on one thing: Get the listing agreements signed, no matter what it takes. It took sales skills to keep the listing, but it took patience to get it.
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